Scorpios asn Friends and Lovers

What is it like being a friend of a scorpio? and the lover of a scorpio?

Scorpios as Friends and Lovers

In spite of their ambitious nature and their jealous tendencies, Scorpios can be wonderful friends and lovers. One of the reasons for this is they are so passionate and loyal in their feelings. You never have to wonder where you stand with a Scorpio—you will always know although they may not be verbal in what they say. However, you do have to overlook some of their obsessions and possessiveness in order to maintain a healthy friendship or romance with the Scorpio.

Scorpios as Friends

If you manage to become friends with a Scorpio you will find you have one of the most loyal friends in the world. Scorpios are also extremely passionate in all their relationships whether it is just as a friend, a family member or a lover. It is very difficult to earn the trust of a Scorpio; trust is something you must earn. However, if you are fortunate enough to gain the trust of a Scorpio, you can be sure you will have a friend for the rest of your life.

When you are friends with a Scorpio you can be sure you will always have someone there to help you and just listen to what you have to say. On the other hand you must remember a Scorpio will not accept any sign of failure on the part of himself or his friends. If something goes wrong he will be there to encourage you to “get up, dust yourself off, and start over again.” There is no such thing as giving up in the eyes of a Scorpio.

On the other hand if you truly run into trouble, you can be sure your Scorpio friend will be there to provide support and anything else you might need. He will help and support you but will not allow you to give up when there is another solution to the problem. There are some things that he just sees as too minor to worry about and will provide encouragement rather than actual help. Of course, you also want to remember Scorpios never forget a kind deed or any kind of help someone did for them. You can be sure they will return the favor and add even more than that into the relationship.

There is a down side to this, however. If you do something wrong to your Scorpio friend, his personality will change completely. Once you wrong a Scorpio he will never forgive or forget when you break his trust. He may even go to extreme of doing harm to the person he feels wronged him. Even if you do manage to earn back his trust, he will retaliate in some way for what you did wrong before he will be friends with you again.

Scorpios as Lovers

Scorpios as lovers are very passionate and sensual but on the other hand, they are also very possessive and mysterious. Some people like mystery in a lover, but it can sometimes be troublesome because in Scorpio the mystery is in the fact they never allow you to know

everything about them. Even if you manage to marry a Scorpio, you will never know everything there is to know, and that is the way it will stay. Any attempts to learn more than they are willing to give will cause friction in the relationship. You must be content to accept whatever the Scorpio wants you to know and not attempt to delve into his complete being.

The Scorpio woman is both flirtatious and seductive but when she is in a committed relationship she is also very affectionate and committed. Like all Scorpios the Scorpio female is very possessive and has a high tendency toward jealously even when there is no reason for her to be jealous. She is very demanding but fascinating at the same time. Like all Scorpios she likes to be in control in the relationship, something that can be troublesome if she becomes involved with a Scorpio male since both cannot possibly be in control.

Just like Scorpio women Scorpio men are possessive about their lovers. In addition to being possessive and often jealous the Scorpio man can also be very moody and sensitive, a side they do not allow their lovers to see. It is very easy to seduce a Scorpio man, and he has no problem whatsoever in having one-night stands. He doesn’t feel the need to have a relationship to have sex nor does he feel the need to have a regular sexual partner as long as he has someone to meet his needs at any given moment.

When you are dating a Scorpio man, it is very difficult to understand his personality. One of the reasons for this may indeed be the mysterious part of him that he will not allow his partner to fully see. It is very difficult to understand the Scorpio personality if you are only seeing a small portion of the entire man. It those things you do not see that would provide the answers to his complex personality.

When you are in a committed relationship with a Scorpio he will make the woman feel very safe and secure. He will strive to protect her from harm and act as her knight in shining armor. The fact that he will treat her with such respect and sensitivity make it well worth the plunge to overlook some of the other things she may find not so inviting—such as his jealous tendencies. You also want to remember Scorpio is very ambitious when it comes to his job, so there may be times you will have to take a back seat to something he has to do to get ahead at work. He may also be very secretive when it comes to his finances because he fears if people know how much money he has they will try to take it from him. However, he will totally take care of you, so you will be content to take the good with the bad.

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