What to expect in a relationship with a scorpio
Being the eighth sign of the zodiac, Scorpio is ruled primarily by Pluto with Mars as the co-
ruler. According to the astrological make-up, Scorpio is a negative water sign. Scorpios are very
emotional people who are capable of feeling all kinds of positive and negative emotions with
great intensity. That means whether they love or hate they will do so with intensity, passionately
or bitterly as the case may be. If you capture the love of a Scorpio, you will find he will be very
intense and passionate when it concerns loved ones there is no middle ground for this sign.
One thing you must be careful of, however, is Scorpios can be extremely jealous and exhibit
bitterness toward their rivals and those they perceive to be enemies.
One thing about a Scorpio that many people will find difficult to handle is their tendency to
hide their real motives and agendas from the people around them. They also have a need to be
in control all the time. If you are the type of person who also needs to be in control, you will
have a difficult time building a relationship of any kind with a Scorpio, romantic or otherwise.
You will find you will need to step down off your pedestal so to speak and allow your Scorpio
to take charge of the situation at all times. Do not think at any time you will be able to convince
a Scorpio you can take care of things better because this is the quickest way to lose any kind of
relationship with a Scorpio.
Scorpios also have the innate ability to understand how the human mind works and know
immediately why an individual is talking or acting in a certain way. Some people may find this
irritating or even scary to think someone can look through them and know some of the things
that are on their minds. While this trait can certainly be scary to those who do not understand it,
there are times when it can be quite useful. Think of those times when you feel a certain way and
dont understand why: the ability of a Scorpio to define those emotions can certainly help you
overcome them and move past them.
Scorpios have an immense fear of failure both in their personal and professional relationships.
They will attempt to avoid any kind of failure by setting goals that are realistic, tangible and
short-term. They will work toward each goal one at a time and avoid moving on to any other
goals until they accomplish what the first ones. While this is something many people other than
Scorpios tend to do, the trait is very common among Scorpios because of not only their fear of
failure but because they are highly ambitious and power hungry. Working on one goal at a time
will help them arrive where they want to be without fear of failure. However, remember, you
may take second place to the ambitions of Scorpions. They have the ability to work incessantly
with no break until they achieve what they want.
The fierce desire of Scorpio to succeed in both business and personal relationships creates a
fierce and ruthless nature when they are faced with competition. Their sharp memories can help
your ducks in a row, dont start an argument with Scorpio because you will lose the fight every
time and end up looking foolish in the process. Being able to develop any kind of relationship
with a Scorpio professional, personal or romantic requires a great deal of self-control and the
ability to handle their lack of pleasure when they are faced with competition at any point in their
lives. They will go to any lengths to win and do not have a problem harming or manipulating
anyone who gets in the way of them achieving their goals.
Whether you are in a relationship with a Scorpio professionally or personally, its important to
understand their need to be in control and their ambitious natures. Getting along with a Scorpio
means you may need to make some concessions in order to maintain a friendship or romance
with this fixed water sign. Remember, Scorpio is quite capable of living alone and is very
independent; do not make the mistake of thinking if you just walk away he will change his min
and let you have your way he will not care and will not fall for your attempts to manipulate
him into doing something he doesnt want to do. In fact, this type of manipulation will drive him
away from you forever.
Another thing you do not want to do is attempt to make a Scorpio jealous. They are very jealous
by nature when it comes to their loved ones whether friends or a lover. They can be very ruthless
when you put them on the spot and force them to fight for what they consider rightfully theirs.
This is also another way to lose your Scorpio forever because he will see it as another form of
manipulation or your attempt at gaining control over him, something he will not allow. Scorpio
can be your best friend or your worst enemy, and much of the direction the relationship takes
will depend on you allowing Scorpio to maintain control.
One of the things you probably want to avoid at all costs is attempting to compete with a Scorpio
professionally and still maintain a personal relationship. Remember, Scorpio is very ambitious
and will do anything necessary to push away the competition, and that includes eliminating
friends he sees as detrimental to his achievements. If you work for the same company, you do
not want to work in the same department if you also have aspirations for success because you
will need to choose between your friendship or romance with the Scorpio and your promotion.
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